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Tuesday, November 22, 2011

a record of patience and insipiration

It can be tough being a parent. In the last two years, I've learned to recognize my level of patience and try to alert PoppaGeek when the levels are shockingly low. (You can check with him...I'm not always successful with these alerts!) I've also learned the tried and true methods: count to 10, step back, etc.

I found a post today with the "Top 10 Inspiring, Lovely Quotes about Parenthood." I wanted to try and capture them, so that I can reference them frequently, :-) thereby refilling my patience reserves.

Here's the link to the article I found.
http://thestir.cafemom.com/big_kid/129133/top_10_inspiring_lovely_quotes

Here are the quotes themselves.

The most terrifying day of your life is the day the first one is born. Your life, as you know it ... is gone. Never to return. But they learn how to walk, and they learn how to talk ... and you want to be with them. And they turn out to be the most delightful people you will ever meet in your life. — Bob, Lost in Translation

Parents can only give good advice or put them on the right paths, but the final forming of a person's character lies in their own hands. — Anne Frank

The family. We were a strange little band of characters trudging through life sharing diseases and toothpaste, coveting one another's desserts, hiding shampoo, borrowing money, locking each other out of our rooms, inflicting pain, and kissing to heal it in the same instant, loving, laughing, defending, and trying to figure out the common thread that bound us all together. — Erma Bombeck

Everybody knows how to raise children, except the people who have them. — P. J. O'Rourke

You don't really understand human nature unless you know why a child on a merry-go-round will wave at his parents every time aroundand why his parents will always wave back. — William D. Tammeus

I don't remember who said this, but there really are places in the heart you don't even know exist until you love a child. ― Anne Lamott, Operating Instructions: A Journal of My Son's First Year

I thought, how can it be that two strangers are exchanging such intimate things? Well, most women are full to the brim, that’s all. That’s what I think. I think we are most of us ready to explode, especially when our children are small and we are so weary with the demands for love and attention and the kind of service that makes you feel you should be wearing a uniform with “Mommy” embroidered over the left breast, over the heart. I (used to sit) half watching Ruthie and half dreaming—trying, I think, to recall my former self. If a stranger had come up to me and said, “Do you want to talk about it? I have time to listen,” I think I might have burst into tears at the relief of it. It wasn’t that I was really unhappy. It was the constancy of my load and the awesome importance of it; and it was my isolation. — Elizabeth Berg, The Pull of the Moon

It's not only children who grow. Parents do too. As much as we watch to see what our children do with their lives, they are watching us to see what we do with ours. I can't tell my children to reach for the sun. All I can do is reach for it, myself. — Joyce Maynard

There is nothing that can bring you closer to fearlessness about everything else in the world than being a parentbecause everyday fears, like not being approved of, pale by comparison to the fears you have about your children— Arianna Huffington

You are the closest I will ever come to magic. ― Suzanne Finnamore, The Zygote Chronicles

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